Imagine this: You're in a bar and see the woman of his dreams sitting on the other side or the bar itself. You can finish your drink and start walking over, but as close to the heart beats faster, you feel your stomach knotting up, you start feeling light headed, mouth goes dry and concerns of women go straight past without even so much as smile. A lot of people can say they are afraid of walking up to women and striking up a conversation, mostly because they are afraid of getting rejected.
The refusal was not a big deal, it can knock your confidence, and sometimes it's so bad you think you can never get the woman of your dreams, but what people need to understand is whether you like it or not you will get rejected every now and then. As soon as you get to grips with that you will be able to find that woman you're looking for. These are basic tips for approaching women for those who are still learning how to do it right.
Humor
One of the many things that women love that someone can make them laugh which is why this method is very effective. However, many people do not use which is understandable because it is way too risky. a little light humor is great for picking up women, but if you come on too strong or inappropriate use of humor, which really is not funny, then I can guarantee that 9 times out of 10 you'll get rejected. If you are not, of course, not funny then and I do not go on the internet looking for funny pick up lines. Women have heard that several times and they put off so you only use this method if you are funny.
"You can not see" strategy
Women love attention. That is why this strategy is good for those who know that they are checked by a woman. When a woman is checking out a man and they make eye contact probably the thing that one needs to do is walk up to her and start a conversation, but this strategy is completely opposite. What you should do is contact with the eyes a few times looking away after a few seconds staring at each other. Continue this for a while, but do not overdo it because the woman will get or put off by you and start talking to another person. It is much easier if you have a group of friends as it is easier to ignore her for a while. After they ignored it long enough to go to her and say "hello". The reason this method works, because you're ignoring her, she awakens curiosity as she asked "why he ignored me?" Then when you go and say "Hi" liberate you have your curiosity and attention.
Flirting
This is one that people do not follow up on it. This is the simplest way and all you have to do is look at a woman and a smile, make eye contact or even wink at her. If she is interested in you it can restore a smile or even blush if you wink at her. If she does any of these to go and talk to her, she gave a signal to talk to her. When talking with her to flirt a little too much, this is a compliment, smiling at her, touching hands, there are many ways to flirt during the conversation, and if it works out you will leave with their number.
Here you have the basics approaching women. The next time you are in a bar, club or anywhere to remember these basic tips as well as May and they go a long way to help the woman of his dreams.
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