How Can You Change Your Life If You're Afraid of Change?

Copyright (c) 2011 Willie Horton

With more than fifteen years working in the field of personal development so under my belt, I came to the conclusion that everyone wants to change his life, or be changed. If you Google 'personal development' or 'Self Improvement', you will reach the same conclusion. However, you may not need to prove himself, "after all, has a very good chance that you are not 100% satisfied with any of your life or yourself. Most people do not like their job. Most people worry about the weight loss novcu.Industriji profitability proof of life, people often struggle with their weight. i Google the financial freedom 'and you'll be amazed at the number of sites that promise riches beyond your wildest dreams' guaranteed or your money back! the truth is that we are suckers for a quick and easy way to change our lives. Maybe this is because for years the psychological research suggests that we are actually hard-wired to fear of taking big steps that we think should be taken to change our lives.

We are creatures of habit. That's how we built. By the age of two months - yes, months, not years - we fall prey to what psychologists call habituation. We are accustomed to what we have experienced and we pay little or no attention after that - novelty has worn off. And at the age of two or three, we became aware of the danger, looking for new adventures, new situations, new people. At the time we have 'matured (and I'm not sure that this is the right word for the type of behavior we see every day) in adults, we have become enshrined in our little cocoon. We call this our life -. But, in fact, it just goes on for survival

One of the key consequences of getting used to stop paying attention to things we do regularly in our lives. However, sooner or later, everything becomes routine - so we end up paying attention to anything. Crucially, the research shows that its ability to be happy and successful - and, here, I'm assuming that the changes you want to see in your life will lead to your happiness and success - directly relates to your ability to pay attention.

a result of our inability to pay attention, the result of our repeated behaviors and influence our understanding that there is concern in new or unfamiliar things boxes us in life that is a pale shadow of life that we might live. But ask the next person you meet how they work, and chances are you'll happily answer is "not bad" or "not so bad!" In my opinion, not bad not good enough - what is the point of going through life in a sort of comfort zone that you are too embarrassed enough to do anything about

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The point is that you want to change your life, but you are afraid of change! Now, there is no reason you should feel upset or captured this conundrum - because the human condition, this is the way we are. However, this does not mean that it is the way to remain. Why should you settle for survival, when the joy and excitement of life truly lived before your very eyes, if you want to go to the trouble of opening them? I have already mentioned that, like normal adults, we pay attention to anything. I also mentioned that paying attention to the correlation between your happiness. You must re-learn skills that you used as a child to pay attention to what is actually happening here and now.

Ever heard the worn out saying you've got to stop to smell the roses? Well, that's exactly what you've got to do. Normal daily routines anaesthetizes mind - we ended up wandering through a meaningless life. To break the cycle of mindless, you have come to your senses. I mean this literally - you really do not have to stop and really smell the roses. You have to actually stop in their tracks - you call the attention - and reveal a reality that is happening right before your eyes. You've got to see the opportunities that numbed the mind can not see. Do you feel lucky heart a special moment that the normal mind is believed to be routine. You have to wake up.

When - or if - you wake up, you realize that there is no such thing as a fear that the change you want in your life is something we should look to open the details of your everyday life. Find in it, you will realize how easy it is to actually change your life. What do I mean by this? Well, your present life is a composite score every little thing you've done, half done or mindlessly do not really do it all - stretching all the way back to late childhood. Every little thing you've ever done in my life has brought you to where you are now. The point is that the little things that will change your life - not a great awe, startle,-life-out-of-you dare change that you make. In other words, there is nothing to fear.

So, if you want to change your life, here is a simple pointer. Make small changes first. Small changes disrupt your addiction and demand that you start to pay attention to what you're doing - but the routine might be thinking what you are doing. For example, you can brush your teeth tonight with a party that does not normally use. Mess with your mind, the mind is messing with you all my adult life - and it's got a far from perfect place. If you come to your senses, to start paying attention to little things in your life, you will find yourself effortlessly - Yes, I said no effort! - Start to make major changes that would normally otherwise fear. And once you start changing, you have a place in a whole new world that, although all the time, will open your eyes to the possibilities of life and opportunities.